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Food is Gathering

“Family gathers
to share good noise and good food.
Gratitude abounds.”

– Richelle E. Goodrich, Making Wishes: Quotes, Thoughts, & a Little Poetry for Every Day of the Year 

This story is part of The Meaning of Food, Northwest Harvest’s yearlong exploration of food’s meaning in our lives and communities.

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Food is Gathering

Coming Together, Rooted in Tradition.

Gathering

  1. A coming together of people in a group (as for social, religious, or political purposes).
  2. The collecting of food or raw materials from the wild.

From the beginning of human history, we have gathered — both our food and each other. The dual meaning of “gathering” reflects two ancient and essential acts: foraging, harvesting, and gleaning from the land, and coming together to share food in celebration, ritual, or daily life.

Across cultures and generations, gathering food connects us to the natural world — to the land that sustains us, to the seasons and cycles of the earth. Gathering around food connects us to one another — to our ancestors, our communities, and our traditions. These acts are deeply human. They nourish our bodies, strengthen our relationships, and root us in belonging.

This month, as we explore the meaning of food through the lens of gathering, we honor the ways food brings us together — in body, in heart, and in purpose.

We All Belong

a woven basket full of apples held by three pairs of hands

A hunter-gatherer family shares what it has, whether that is information or food. To give to others is to be able to receive from others. Knowledge and food are stored, as it were, by being shared.

— Hugh Brody, The Other Side of Eden

Gathering to feast is one of the oldest human traditions. Archaeological evidence — from food remnants near ancient hearths to communal cooking sites — shows that humans have been sharing meals for over 10,000 years. In fact, evolutionary anthropology identifies food sharing as a key factor in human cooperation and survival. 

From the communal nature of early foraging and farming to codified traditions like Sparta’s syssitia (“eating together”), the act of sharing food has always been central to human life. Today, we see echoes of this in Indigenous potlatches, Shabbat dinners, Ramadan iftars, Lunar New Year feasts, Sunday soul food gatherings — even the humble office pizza party. 

Science affirms what tradition has long known: eating together releases oxytocin, the “love hormone” that fosters trust, loyalty, and connection. Sharing meals strengthens our social bonds and supports our physical and emotional well-being. Gathering around food is not just cultural — it’s biological. 

The Earth Provides: Gathering with Gratitude

“Ask permission before taking. Abide by the answer. Never take the first. Never take the last. Take only what you need. Take only that which is given. Never take more than half. Leave some for others. Harvest in a way that minimizes harm. Use it respectfully. Never waste what you have taken. Share. Give thanks for what you have been given. Give a gift, in reciprocity for what you have taken.”

— Robin Wall Kimmerer, Braiding Sweetgrass
hands holding a woven basket filled with wild mushrooms

For millennia, Indigenous communities have lived in reciprocal relationship with the land, guided by spiritual reverence and ancestral knowledge. In Northwest Native culture, knowledge itself is considered wealth — passed down through families and spiritual communities to protect both the wisdom and the plants it honors. 

Skokomish elder Bruce Miller taught that when each person holds distinct knowledge, the community becomes interdependent. “If you teach them everything the same,” he said, “they won’t need each other and the world will fall apart.” 

Traditional First Foods — salmon, camas, clams, stinging nettles — are gathered seasonally with care. Practices like controlled burning of huckleberry patches not only sustain the plants but regenerate the land. Indigenous sustainability isn’t about minimizing impact — it’s about leaving a positive impact. 

Gathering responsibly means asking permission — not just from landowners, but from the Plant Nations themselves. Plants are sentient and communicative. When we listen, they guide us toward reciprocity in a world shaped by extraction and exploitation. 

Land access remains a major barrier to traditional gathering. Strict regulations on public lands and privatization of ancestral territories limit the ability to forage and harvest. Understanding treaty rights and advocating for equitable land access is essential to food sovereignty — for Indigenous and non-Native communities alike. 

Understanding treaty rights and advocating for equitable land access is essential to food sovereignty — for Indigenous and non-Native communities alike.

When Gathering is Delayed or Denied

Despite its universality, gathering is not always possible. Displacement, war, incarceration, segregation, poverty, and systemic discrimination can make gathering dangerous or inaccessible. Colonization and industrial agriculture have decimated ecosystems once stewarded by tribal communities. Biodiversity loss and habitat destruction threaten the very species that sustained generations. 

When communities are barred from gathering — whether physically or spiritually — they are denied connection. And connection is a basic human need. Food links us to each other and to the earth. Without it, we lose more than nourishment — we lose belonging. 

Native Americans spearing salmon on the Columbia River
group of people having a picnic in a park

Reciprocity, Responsibility, and Reflection

Gathering is more than an act — it’s a relationship. Practicing reciprocity means honoring the web of life that sustains us. It means gathering with intention, respect, and gratitude. It can be spiritual, ceremonial, resilient, and resistant. It can be an act of care — for ourselves, our communities, and the living world around us. 

Gathering and eating are best done with others — and best done with thanks.

Bring the spirit of gathering into your daily life

We’ve compiled a list of 10 ways to practice gathering responsibly — from hosting inclusive meals to learning about traditional foods and foraging protocols. 

You can read the list by visiting the link below.

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Support the Change Makers

Right now, food banks and community organizations across Washington are facing a surge in demand. Our 375+ Food Access Network partners are doing everything they can to fill the gaps, but they can’t do it alone.

We’ve compiled a list with real-time support requests from our partners—items and resources they need right now to continue serving their communities. From diapers and warm clothing to commercial refrigerators and handicap-accessible vehicles, these are the tools that help keep food flowing and dignity intact.

Browse the list by visiting the link below to see what partners in your area need most.

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Traditional harvesting and shared meals connect us to land and each other. How has sharing food helped you feel connected — to others, to the land, or to your heritage?

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Together, we’re weaving a deeper understanding of food’s role in creating a more equitable future.